Saturday, May 21, 2011

5~No Licky Licky



She doesn't suck dick/He doesn't lick clits...is that a deal breaker?

Nope...

A good man...I repeat a GOOD man, is a rare commodity, seemingly. If I found one (or he found me) who knew how to treat me, love me, respect me...had work ethic, spirituality...was responsible, smart, funny, sweet...or just basically was a good dude who'd chosen ME to be his woman...you think I'd give a damn if he ever licked it?

Nah, I'd much rather just have someone I could trust and whom wasn't afraid to open up and be vulnerable to my love...

Sucking my clit ain't SHIT if he's making good love to my spirit! People focus on the wrong shit. What's MORE...is that even if he didn't start out doing it, whose to say with growing trust and intimacy that I couldn't wake up to this man's feverish hunger between my legs? Never say never, right?

12 comments:

Mahoganydymond said...

Awwww.. It really don't matter to me. Yet... I think that he has to at least give me reasons to why he wouldn't? Especially since I like it...

Thee_Kween said...

I mean, I like it to Mah...but, it's not worth it if he's not enjoying it. It's better to skip the shit altogether. Of course, I'm sure I'd want to know why, but with that comes a slew of reasons "why not".

Most people have just had bad experiences...and with that, comes patience. I've got plenty of that for a deserving party.

Thee_Kween said...

too*

The God'ess said...

Umm...yeeeeeah. Deal breaker. Don't judge me. LOL

Thee_Kween said...

I'm not...to each his own. There are more of you that feel that way then not...

daMonstah said...

I can't SEE "why" nor "how" that could ever be a problem. I mean if you are emotionally into someone...what part of a man would say, "I'd rather NOT see your legs open and that beautiful vagina OPEN and ME licking it." Come on. Let's keep it real...if you are REALLY "into" someone...that IS NOT going to be an issue. But if it was? I think she should find out why...in a hurry. That's kind of weird. And I NEED it sucked...not "want"...NEED it sucked or I'm OUT.

Icnonlybme said...

I can't do it Sis...That's the primary way I cum...*walking away in tears at the thought*

Thee_Kween said...

Monstah~ There's your reason #1-1,000,000 why we could never be. LMAO

@Dee~ I feel you. I guess, I'm naive in thinking that if you've gotten to know someone you might want to compromise in the name of love. Sex is such an exploratory and learn-able thing...the same way one might be willing to learn a new "trick" is the same way someone might be willing to learn to compromise.

PRIMALDATA said...

As I've had enough bad experiences with them to know that sometimes it's better to avoid the bite than risk it, if everything else is good I could be alright without it. I'd ask why, be like okay babes and move on.

Now if there is an issue with me GIVING you head something is gonna have to give. Anybody too uptight to give or receive would probably not be a good match for me. I have an exhibitionist streak at times and worse than that sometimes I'm a horny devil and do not wish to be deterred unless by mother nature with her evil ass.

Look how you wanna look, think I'm just popping off at the mouth but somethings are required. I love the way a woman looks when your tongue is working on her, the way she moves, squirms, the lip biting and the facial expressions. That shit just does something to me mentally

Sundae said...

Naw, Sis. It's the primary way I cum, but it ain't a dealbreaker. the blog will explain...lol

Divaprocessor said...

DAMN Tommy your comment just made me moist...LOL Sorry Sis I got to have it also...

Humble BE said...

getting licked is not everything... it surely does help though. I'm thinking of that t-shirt.. "well, it ain't gonna lick itself" hilarious!

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